Tom Xiao


  • “At 2:12pm on May 28th, 2026, CST, I have officially crossed the state line of North Dakota and became the first & youngest person in my family ever to properly visit every U.S. state 🇺🇸50/50🦅, at the age of 23 years 238 days old. After a few days of reflection and now completed the Lower 48 for the second time, I would like to take this moment to share some insights on completing this life-changing journey, which required tons of sacrifices, planning, time, money, energy, courage, efforts, patience, and most importantly – grit (one’s passion to persevere).

    Leading up to this moment, my journey began long before my accomplishments today, as I went through one of the hardest periods of my life while experiencing heartbreak from someone I deeply loved and the sudden death of one of my closest friend. It was a time that loss and rejection felt permanent. When something mattered that much and disappeared, it was difficult to imagine what could possibly come next. That period eventually led me to a belief that would change the direction of my life: ‘Limits are Perceived.’

    Through this belief, I was able to make my mark and became a XC team captain, a certified lifeguard, a published author, a film director, a licensed pilot, and now the first in my family to visit every state. I began to understand that losing something did not mean losing everything. Rejection did not determine my worth. Pain did not have to define the limits of what my life could become. I couldn’t change what had happened, but I could decide what happened next. In years, I challenged myself to push beyond what’s possible and flying had represented one of the biggest limits I wanted to break. No one in my family had ever become a pilot, and it was my way of remembering the girl who changed my life.

    Then I failed. I failed my first Private Pilot checkride and perhaps the sky really was my limit. For a while, that failure affected me more than I wanted to admit. I stopped flying. I stepped away from aviation, and I didn’t really talk about it. It reminded me back of the dark times of loss and rejections, all over again.

    Then came London.

    Between 2024-2025, I solo backpacked 30 UN-recognized countries while living abroad in London. Somewhere along those roads, trains, airports, hostels, mountains, and unfamiliar cities, I began rebuilding the confidence I thought I had lost. Then, I made a promise to myself on top of Mount Srd in Dubrovnik, Croatia (my 40th country), that someday I would visit every U.S. state, every continent, and every UN-recognized countries in the world. I learned that travel is essential to shaping one’s worldview, and that the world is a book, so for those who don’t travel, read only a page. I came back to the States as a brand new person and sat in the airplane again to face my biggest fears for a second time. First I passed the checkride, now I completed the States, and history speaks for itself ever since.

    My goal is to inspire others through the things I do and the brand I built, to have people follow their own path to their unique greatness. When I first started, I thought that if one person travels somewhere because my journey inspired them, then my job is complete, and I would be so satisfied. I knew I did that already, and that always put a smile on my face. Today only marked the beginning of MY journey and I hope it will become YOURS someday too, and to see you someday on the road, in some far corners of the world…”

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    May 2026, Fargo, North Dakota (50/50 US State)
    November 2025, Beverly, Massachusetts (Private Pilot License)
    May 2025, Marrakesh, Morocco (42nd Country)
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    30 Countries Traveled in One Year Part 2
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